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Deeds, Debts and Destiny


Am actually going beyond phrasing anything in life in terms of good and bad, lucky or unlucky. Because when i categorize situations and compare them to other people or their life it becomes nullified and absurd because i always think that maybe his life or her life is great and good but i would never, ever exchange it with anyone and for anything.

Why ?

Because am not aware what would happen to them in the next moment or in the future so i just refuse to compare my life or destiny with others and i always term it permanently as good and lucky for am never ready for exchange nor will be at any point even if it were to be exchanged with bill gates.  I’d rather love my own life my own destiny than some other person’s.

You see when you love all about yourself and your life and never think how it will be ten years from now or 40 years from now you still love to live it everyday and may not think about choosing some person and change it with your’s , i hope not everyone thinks of doing so , because we are very much sure that we are good and our life will be good or bad we own it and will never change it with anyone, because we are not aware of the other persons life his deeds or how indebted they are for past life or this one and even their destiny .

Hence we would be afraid to step in their shoes and experience their life !  Isn’t it ?

Now think again about the line I have quoted above and reflect on this thought that when you refrain from exchanging life with the best person on earth isn’t it a way of calling your own life the best and your own destiny the best est . Don’t you feel good and energetic and very confident about your own deeds and your destiny and that yes you have a wonderful life ahead and at this present moment too you would never cease to happen and preparing for the next moment. 

Its like that only that we love our life we are confident and we should remain confident and permanent about our own life and this thought should help is in decreasing our fears , complaints , miseries , problems and pain that we go through in everyday life comparing it with other people who we think have none like we do.

It is actually the best way to enhance your thoughts give them a positive boost to know that your life is best and that you are so conscious and aware about tit that you would forever call it great and the fact that you cannot exchange it with anyone make you the proud owner of your karma and the results that are truly yours and whatever happens you accept it completely without any regret or complaints for how life is unfolding for you.

The best way to achieve happiness in simple terms is to accept life and never think of exchanging it with anyone, by doing this you will see that how it ceases comparisons to happen that give rise to other problems.


Tagged In – Blog Nomination


I have been Tagged by Ajay ji (Ajaytao2010)  thank you so much for tagging me.

Ajay ji, a very down to earth person, living his life zestfully that is reflected in his blogs. I’ve never been able to see any speck or shade of his illness (cancer) in his writings or pictures that he posts in his blogs. He writes very nice poetry and i came to know it recently through a Hindi poem that he posted . Ajay ji is a real fighter at heart and i admire his genuineness, he never mixes mind with his words and whatever comes in his conversation pours out straight from his heart. Such people are rare to find. i can go on talking a lot more about him but the game needs to be attended so… 

Rules of the game :-

1. Post these rules.

2. Post a photo of yourself and eleven random facts about you.

3. Answer the questions given to you in the tagger’s post.

4. Create eleven new questions and tag new people to answer them.

5. Go to their blog/twitter and let them know they have been tagged.

11 Random facts about me :-

1. I love to play with little kids rather going out with my friends.

2. I have a fetish to buy cosmetics but scarcely use them.

3. I love to teach the poor street kids.

4. I am more than happy to live in a village other than the city.

5. I love the idea of simple and very slow life .

6. I wish to do a lot for the poor and slum kids like open an amusement park with food etc just for them.

7. I love railway stations more than the airports.

8. I can go all day without food but not without a cup of tea.

9. I can pretend to be happy even if am deeply sad.

10. I care a lot about people around me.

11. I always remain hopeful and positive about life come what may. 

Answer of the questions given to me in the tagger post :- 

1. The most unforgettable moment of your life?  

   Met him on a forum, committed to love over the phone, saw each other after a year of relationship.

2. One fictitious character you completely relate to?

      Balika Vadhu’s Anandi, her life’s journey is so much similar to mine.

3. The best compliment you ever received?

       Am an authentic person

4.Do you have a regret for a lifetime?

     Nothing to regret its karma

5. The one thing you love about yourself ?  


6.If you had to live someone else’s life for a single day who would that be?

    Gautama Buddha

7.Who is your favorite writer?

    Bloggers inspire me more than the writers

8. Your most favorite place in this whole world?  


9. Define love in a single word. 


10. Do you believe in miracles and magic?  

       No, I believe in Karma

11. The most unforgettable experience of a lifetime?  

       My school girls cried when i was transferred, their unconditional love was heart warming experience

11 New Questions for my Nominees 

Q.1  What is your life’s most amazing experience ?

Q.2  What do you like the most about yourself ?

Q.3  Are you an optimist  ?

Q.4  If you could meet one person, dead or alive who would it be ?

Q.5  What is your deepest fear in life ?

Q.6  What is your dream topic for a blog post ?

Q.7  Who influences you the most in life ?

Q.8  Do you regret anything in past or present ?

Q.9  Which is Your Dream destination ?

Q.10  Do you like to help around people ?

Q.11  Two words that describe you

My Nominees are:






Through the Peacock’s Eyes



Lakshmi Loves To Shop 

Hira Nazir




Thank you  & Regards