Life , Is It

We’re alone in our own struggles, we cannot reach nor anyone can reach us, its just us who has to go .

Zindagi

Abhi dum nikla nahi
Thoda aur chalne do
Hawao ka rukh badla nahi
Tufaan ko aane do

Maine haar maani nahi
kashti mein hun sawar
Abhi saas baaki hain
Doob jaane do patwar

Door kinara ho sahi
Main chalang laga du
Tairna sikha nhi magar
Samandar ko dubaa dun

Kinare pahuchna mumkin
hai Magar itna zaruri nahi
Kyunki
Zindagi samundar mein hai
Kinhi kinaro mein nhi…

Written by
Shilpi Chauhan Sinha

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The Unapproachable

“Why people seem to be unapproachable, is it because i think that they will ignore me or even say no in my face or is it my Ego that doesn’t let me reach”

By shilpi

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ManyMee: Lighting-up the other side of Moon

“If we are not able to freely share what we want to, connectivity is futile”

It is a connected world. We are all connected to each other with the help of technology. The question is why is there a need for connectivity? We want to communicate. While communicating we share. There are a lot of things we share and a lot of things we don’t. We share only the good stuff. We share the stuff that makes us superior to others or maintains status quo . “Others” are none but the people in our own little circles. I being in India will not be showing my superiority to someone is Sao Paulo. Closer the relationship, stronger is the urge to display superiority. If what we share does not raise our position, even for a few hours, we do not share. When there is nothing to share, we fabricate and share stuff that will make us superior thus what we share is hardly a true representation of our lives. Even if we share, it is a very small fraction of our lives.

Life is not about “Likes”. Not all situations in life are “likable” Life is not the same always. Times are sometimes easy and sometimes difficult. There may be situations in life that does not raise our status. These are the times when we want to – share and get our spirits lifted, receive honest and unbiased help and support, search for inspiration, have others help us get going, know that we are not alone but there are others who are in the same boat as ours. These situations may not be likable.

But in these times we do not share as the existing platforms don’t allow us to do so as they are predominated by “Like”.

In the existing social platforms, connections are mostly based on pre-existing relationships. The people who are connected to you have preconceived notion about who you are. There is a pre-existing image of everyone. You are already somebody there.  Everyone has been labelled and tagged. Our little circle feeds the so called images and keeps them alive. Status quo is maintained. Everyone remains who they are. The existing circles help maintain “status quo”. They do not help you grow. But since life is not the same always, maintaining status quo does not work and the whole setup fails.

There is a subtle tacit non-acceptance in our circles when we share about something that has changed within us as a result of occurrence of certain events in our lives or we ourselves are trying to bring about some change in ourselves. We are subconsciously aware of this non-acceptance and this gives rise to tremendous inhibitions in trying to share and show in our little circles that you are not the same person again. The presence of the very circle inhibits us from sharing.

Thus sharing is restricted and is incomplete. Sharing is being influenced by the presence of people in our little social circles. Thus we are not able to pour our heart out. The existing connectivity with our friends and acquaintances is restricting us from sharing freely. Thus connectivity is not being able to deliver its complete value.

In order for connectivity to deliver complete value, we have created ManyMee. At ManyMee we may also share stuff that are not likable or stuff we hesitate to share. ManyMee does not work against the existing platforms but complements them by making “connectivity” deliver full value. At ManyMee we are connected to everyone but to none in particular. We have also done away with the “like” icon and have introduced three new icons. At ManyMee you are free to pour your heart out as the restrictions that have been brought about by the presence of people in our little circles are not there. ManyMee does not intend to connect you people who have preconceived notions about you nor will their status, real or fake, have a controlling influence on your confidence, thus enabling you to freely open up and share being who you truly are. Once you are able to share at will, connectivity is worthwhile and we are ourselves again.

— Written by Arnab Sinha ( hubby )

www.manymee.co

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My Social Site http://www.manymee.co where you can share your heartpours choosing from more than 70 + moments of your life, without the fear of being judged or any sort of inhibitions that stop you from pouring what your heart wishes to talk .

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Do Not Disconnect

Whatever you do
Do not disconnect
With yourself
And yours around

Look for signs, if any
Observe and connect
With heart and mind
Losen up yourself

Its important and urgent
To know you’re there
For one and everyone
Even if there are none

Life is to connect
To live consciously
Its ok if you are fine
Nothing less of happily

By Shilpi Chauhan

Living Silently

Living Silently

Ask no questions about life
it goes on is just the answer
No stones are unturned here
just walk silently unnoticed

there’s plenty of suffering around
Walk last! Don’t walk past
Unable and able to attend
where to start with ‘full’ heart

Leave it, no need to pretend
Just live as much u can
This moment is a blessing
everything happens on its own

All Troubles are outside
What is inside is your own
stop seeing and just being
Life is what is unknown

Shilpi Chauhan

HOPE UNITES GLOBALLY -The ‘Hug Award’

Thank you very much Soumyav at http://soumyav.wordpress.com for nominating me for this prestigious award. I am highly obliged and feel honored. She is a very Authentic and Loving person who likes and loves the world is full of hope and appreciation for life that is reflected in her beautiful poems.

I have been blogging on Google Blogger and since it was all related to my past life , i wished to get over with, i started with wordpress, to inspire and encourage people like me and others who face problems in life be it any kind of issues,only through Hope can we create significant change and perspective of life.

 Hope Unites Globally – HUG Award Guidelines.

The HUG Award© was initiated by Connie Wayne at A Hope for Today at http://ahopefortoday.com,which promotes hope, love, peace, equality, and unity for all people.

The HUG Award©

• is for people with an expectant desire for the world, for which they:  Hope for Love; Hope for Freedom; Hope for Peace; Hope for Equality; Hope for Unity; Hope for Joy and Happiness;Hope for Compassion and Mercy; Hope for Faith; Hope for Wholeness and Wellness; Hope for Prosperity; Hope for Ecological Preservation; Hope for Oneness

•  recognizes and honors those who help keep hope alive in our current world, which is plagued by war, natural disasters, and economic recession.  They nurture hope, in any of the above areas (in italics),  by the work they do, or in their personal lives with things such as blogging, public speaking, charity work, etc.

• is for people who, without giving up or compromising their own religious, spiritual, or political beliefs, are able to nurture hope and respect the dignity of all people. 
  

• is for those who, without bias or prejudice, use their resources and gifts to make the world a better place for everyone.

• is for people who have a hope or an expectant desire that the work or talents they use in things such as blogging, public speaking, charity work, etc., will make a positive impact on the world.

These people do not have to actively use the word “hope” in their work or creative talents.  They only need be conscious of their desire to make the world a better place for everyone.

These people use their available resources–a smile, a hug, a helping hand, a listening ear, a voice, time, money, possessions, education, personality, talent, websites and blogs—to make a positive impact on the world and make the world a better place to live.

I would like to nominate wonderful people here on WordPress who have touched me through their ray of hope !

I have named only few of the friends here  and definitely the rest of them whom I have not been able to include have a  special place in my heart

1. Arnab Sinha  http://frommyconsciousness.wordpress.com

2. Ajay http://ajaytao2010.wordpress.com

3. Rachna  http://writingisthesupremesolace.wordpress.com

4. PriConnects http://everydayartsylounge.wordpress.com/

5. Michele Seminara http://micheleseminara.wordpress.com

6. bentpeople http://bentpeople.com

7. hira Nazir http://hiranazir66.wordpress.com/

8. Laxmi http://lakshmilovestoshop.com/

9. raima http://creative-guru.com/

10 Sakshi .http://sakshivashist.wordpress.com/

11. Summer  http://summer4soul.wordpress.com/

12. http://rarasaur.wordpress.com/

13. linda http://5kidswdisabilities.com/

14. gary http://thisawesomelife0918.wordpress.com/

15. http://cristianmihai.net/

Thank you once again Soumyav at http://soumyav.wordpress.com. 

Regards

 

Happy Womens Day

A Dynamic Lady

I sleep with her every night

without any pillow fight

trying to sleep with her sound

and her bed is no less than a ground

we talk about each and every topic

and bless the lord for she’s not myopic

she has sweet life in this big house

with happy memories of her spouse

i see no gloom or vain in her

her family so big makes her merrier

prayers and devotion keep her intact

loves her food and life In fact

for me she is an inspiration

living richly without desperation

morning to evening am home or work

night is the time i sleep in her Kirk

for her home is too divine and pure

her breath is scented with words of cure

i have few days before i leave her

to go and look after my love’s mother

i will miss her thoughts and preaching

she is the master for life’s teachings

she is my grandmother and i call her ‘Amma’

she created our small world just like Brahma

The Unborn

 

Sometimes i think am still unborn

as am not born the way i should have born

 

 

am still not so beautiful by the way

 

am still not so bold, this they say

 

 

am still unborn, my heart cries

 

for no eyes fend for me twice

 

 

every day i feel so taken away

 

when i feel nothing about work or play

 

 

am still unborn, my soul tries

 

for no ears listen me to apprise

  

 

no pun no fun no glam or gold

 

i have none for the talks, they hold

 

 

am still unborn, my conscious say

 

for no touch touches me to gay

 

 

no fancy, funny, formula i know

 

to keep my presence alive from low

 

 

am still unborn, with heart and soul

 

still i will perfect this unformed whole