We’re alone in our own struggles, we cannot reach nor anyone can reach us, its just us who has to go .
Abhi dum nikla nahi
Thoda aur chalne do
Hawao ka rukh badla nahi
Tufaan ko aane do
Maine haar maani nahi
kashti mein hun sawar
Abhi saas baaki hain
Doob jaane do patwar
Door kinara ho sahi
Main chalang laga du
Tairna sikha nhi magar
Samandar ko dubaa dun
Kinare pahuchna mumkin
hai Magar itna zaruri nahi
Zindagi samundar mein hai
Kinhi kinaro mein nhi…
Shilpi Chauhan Sinha
“Why people seem to be unapproachable, is it because i think that they will ignore me or even say no in my face or is it my Ego that doesn’t let me reach”
ManyMee: Lighting-up the other side of Moon
“If we are not able to freely share what we want to, connectivity is futile”
It is a connected world. We are all connected to each other with the help of technology. The question is why is there a need for connectivity? We want to communicate. While communicating we share. There are a lot of things we share and a lot of things we don’t. We share only the good stuff. We share the stuff that makes us superior to others or maintains status quo . “Others” are none but the people in our own little circles. I being in India will not be showing my superiority to someone is Sao Paulo. Closer the relationship, stronger is the urge to display superiority. If what we share does not raise our position, even for a few hours, we do not share. When there is nothing to share, we fabricate and share stuff that will make us superior thus what we share is hardly a true representation of our lives. Even if we share, it is a very small fraction of our lives.
Life is not about “Likes”. Not all situations in life are “likable” Life is not the same always. Times are sometimes easy and sometimes difficult. There may be situations in life that does not raise our status. These are the times when we want to – share and get our spirits lifted, receive honest and unbiased help and support, search for inspiration, have others help us get going, know that we are not alone but there are others who are in the same boat as ours. These situations may not be likable.
But in these times we do not share as the existing platforms don’t allow us to do so as they are predominated by “Like”.
In the existing social platforms, connections are mostly based on pre-existing relationships. The people who are connected to you have preconceived notion about who you are. There is a pre-existing image of everyone. You are already somebody there. Everyone has been labelled and tagged. Our little circle feeds the so called images and keeps them alive. Status quo is maintained. Everyone remains who they are. The existing circles help maintain “status quo”. They do not help you grow. But since life is not the same always, maintaining status quo does not work and the whole setup fails.
There is a subtle tacit non-acceptance in our circles when we share about something that has changed within us as a result of occurrence of certain events in our lives or we ourselves are trying to bring about some change in ourselves. We are subconsciously aware of this non-acceptance and this gives rise to tremendous inhibitions in trying to share and show in our little circles that you are not the same person again. The presence of the very circle inhibits us from sharing.
Thus sharing is restricted and is incomplete. Sharing is being influenced by the presence of people in our little social circles. Thus we are not able to pour our heart out. The existing connectivity with our friends and acquaintances is restricting us from sharing freely. Thus connectivity is not being able to deliver its complete value.
In order for connectivity to deliver complete value, we have created ManyMee. At ManyMee we may also share stuff that are not likable or stuff we hesitate to share. ManyMee does not work against the existing platforms but complements them by making “connectivity” deliver full value. At ManyMee we are connected to everyone but to none in particular. We have also done away with the “like” icon and have introduced three new icons. At ManyMee you are free to pour your heart out as the restrictions that have been brought about by the presence of people in our little circles are not there. ManyMee does not intend to connect you people who have preconceived notions about you nor will their status, real or fake, have a controlling influence on your confidence, thus enabling you to freely open up and share being who you truly are. Once you are able to share at will, connectivity is worthwhile and we are ourselves again.
— Written by Arnab Sinha ( hubby )
Yes! We have launched our dream project.
A website where networking goes beyond just being social, it is more about connecting with emotions of people , reaching beyond the known.
My Social Site http://www.manymee.co where you can share your heartpours choosing from more than 70 + moments of your life, without the fear of being judged or any sort of inhibitions that stop you from pouring what your heart wishes to talk .
I will tell you no more why not let you explore …come join and be part of the real social connection where hearts connect to support, inspire and love.
Whatever you do
Do not disconnect
And yours around
Look for signs, if any
Observe and connect
With heart and mind
Losen up yourself
Its important and urgent
To know you’re there
For one and everyone
Even if there are none
Life is to connect
To live consciously
Its ok if you are fine
Nothing less of happily
By Shilpi Chauhan
Ask no questions about life
it goes on is just the answer
No stones are unturned here
just walk silently unnoticed
there’s plenty of suffering around
Walk last! Don’t walk past
Unable and able to attend
where to start with ‘full’ heart
Leave it, no need to pretend
Just live as much u can
This moment is a blessing
everything happens on its own
All Troubles are outside
What is inside is your own
stop seeing and just being
Life is what is unknown
I sleep with her every night
without any pillow fight
trying to sleep with her sound
and her bed is no less than a ground
we talk about each and every topic
and bless the lord for she’s not myopic
she has sweet life in this big house
with happy memories of her spouse
i see no gloom or vain in her
her family so big makes her merrier
prayers and devotion keep her intact
loves her food and life In fact
for me she is an inspiration
living richly without desperation
morning to evening am home or work
night is the time i sleep in her Kirk
for her home is too divine and pure
her breath is scented with words of cure
i have few days before i leave her
to go and look after my love’s mother
i will miss her thoughts and preaching
she is the master for life’s teachings
she is my grandmother and i call her ‘Amma’
she created our small world just like Brahma
Sometimes i think am still unborn