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De Glam Life

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Life is great for some people who are born with disarming looks along a life of riches which makes things easier for them to achieve. And for those born into average looks and lead an average life things dont come easy to them , if it does its attributed to either destiny or luck, but if they dont appear even after hard work and struggles it all comes down to even below average where another sorts of problems collect around them.

I suppose that there are a plenty of people on this planet who lead a very plain life and often at some point of time would have desired if things could be reversed like the way they were born, or if they had paid attention to their looks earlier or if their parents were keen enough to care for them even more like the parents of the other kids do for them. we all must have felt this way certainly because we are born unhappy since the day we are born we begin life by crying and end it up crying for things we could never have or be born with. 

The major portions of life for women alt east runs around their looks , how attractive they are or how others think about them, the way they should dress but cannot, the makeup they can put on but cannot afford to have, and even to wear and be like those divas on the ramp but they cannot because they have got other better things to do that are safe and acceptable rather than walking the ramp. 

These thoughts that beauty gets all are not mine they are coming from generations that a person gets everything in life if they are attractive and have an eye catching personality .And since generations these thoughts  have hardened so much that they cannot be broken down maybe stereotypical of me to think but i cannot refrain ignoring it when i have vicarious experiences to share that yes beauty outnumbers brain.

Talking of my school days, i recollect how the most beautiful girls of  my class quoted ” After school i will marry the man of my dreams and live life like a queen ” at that time too i never had this mindset, i was steady that yes i have to study do my college and do a job and i shall be married off to a humble man and have to do the chores and work along to make ends meet, and no other thoughts seduced me or contradicted to those i had ever since school. 

But now as iv seen so much in life i wonder that is it necessary to carry out similar thoughts its no where written that god and society favors the beauty history is full of characters and heroes who aren’t beautiful yet remembered for their works and not for their looks. And In times today with all bot ox and jabs beauty is just a few lacks away deal to get. But am not inclined to do so nor i think many of the people who an afford or who cannot are bold enough to live life as they are born not what they should have with. 

Which is why we have so much of beauty promoting ads, lighter skin tone, tanned skin, fairer skin, wrinkled,  age less, spotless, needless to say that its eating out the natural way we used to live and for the ones who wish to live the natural way it makes life hard for them, a simple challenge here,  can one go without even using a moisturizer to work or lip gloss or kohl, no i guess not, and what about not getting your eyebrows or upper lips done, i guess you cannot live like this or i should say look like this. But if i had the chance,i would never take so much of  pain to groom myself for the way society wants me to be , when i can live with those. 

But again we are all part of the society and not following its norms as a girl would mean so much of chaos for myself and those concerned with me. Kind of names they would give you, or even term you as psychologically imbalanced person, wow so much for simplicity , but then who dares because i want to live in this society only i dont want to deviate or break free, the only thing i want and desire and many like me that they can at least have freedom, when dealing with their outer appearance and their own body for that matter. 

It will take a long time for people to accept a de glam life because a life full of glam and shimmer is what attracts to a lot and we often envy those people in hold of it, well its quite natural to have those feelings if you are born human and not a fish, and we slowly separate ourselves with such people be it in sh cool , college or work as if those people are beyond our reach , but then only if you talk to them , you may find some turn out to be just like their looks and some completely opposite are shallow.

But then we cannot judge everyone based on their looks and its even not fair to say that all average looking people are kind enough , everyone has an innate individuality and personality that reflects be it behind the makeup or after a face wash. Its needed that we get in touch with the real glam heart of people and its also needed that the society weighs conscious over glee and glam. 

A de glamorous life is not that easy to live, but  its full of good things to look into and get inspired with. 

 

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i Vision : Steve Jobs

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I dont know how to write about this, but last night i had a dream that i had a brief talk with Steve Jobs, the most amazing lifetime achiever who brought about a revolution with his brand apple and the i phones. I haven’t read much about him nor i have an i phone, they are too expensive for me to buy right now.

I had always liked the i phone, so much that whenever i see it  in someone else s hand, i request them to give it to me for a moment and explore it so much that they order me to return it back to them that very moment. am not unhappy for not being able to own it because its ok but someday i know i shall have one for me. 

I have read some articles and heard about Steve jobs from my fiance and about his apple  company and aware about i phones, but i could never imagine that ill be having Steve jobs a part of my dream, it cannot be, never ever, that some foreign figure could happen to exist in my dreams, am amazed myself .

In my dream i saw Steve jobs where he had this charisma of having a passionate and enlightened feel about him, just like an enlightened and peaceful soul would have like we have seen the meditating Buddha or the standing swami Vivekananda having a peaceful vibe in and around him in pictures. As soon i saw him i recognized him and began to talk, addressing him as Kanha Ji ( Lord Krishna) and not by his name or anything, and narrated  about, my life and the troubles, me and my fiance are going through in life, i could feel like i was in presence of a godly figure and that god knew whose help i needed and he sent someone who could help me to find a way out of my problems, so i requested him to give a fragment of his vision for us, to be our guiding light and inspiration, to hold our hand and lead us to light, i saw him listening to me so very patiently, that i ended narrating the problems anymore or requesting to him, just to realize that he cannot understand Hindi and again i started over again and rephrased all that i had said in Hindi to English and again he stood there listening very patiently. After i had ended describing in English, he said nothing for a moment and took a while to say just this word “alright” and smiled at me and then faded out in swirl and was no where to be seen. I was still there sitting feeling immensely happy and went on thinking that i have none of his creations or his designs but i felt so proud all the time for having his vision and his light and his unseen support forever for my life. 

And since Morning i have been thinking whether it was for real or just a dream or that it meant to be something that i must understand and put to life, am no where near to technology, corporate culture, company life, or not even in the mainstream of life if i literally go on to express about myself and how my life is, coming from an average family and with an average life. 

For me Steve jobs is so far far a thing to think or be known to, all i know is about the i phone and nothing special about him and still i cannot realize or digest that i had him in my dream, but being an educated girl with a psychology background i know it can happen because we live in an age of technology and so much of information exposure, that our unconscious mind stores information that we come across and stimulates similar thoughts that we wish to know about, if not in real than maybe imaginary thoughts and dreams may help us to get them.

Though its all dream actually but i  feel very special about it for it happened to me and not many can experience or feel the way i feel which is why i write about it to make it unforgettable experience of life. And it becomes more special as i relate it to kanha ji’s  blessing for me, a divine blessing from him in his form and the way that he thought best would be caught by me. Because gods dont appear to you so easily so they send their messengers to help you find your solutions to life’s problems.