‘NO’ is the most famous and luxurious word in the vocabulary of human’s who can easily exercise it as and when required or desired.
The word ‘No’ carries lot of perks and prosperity with it, that help the person who addresses this word, does so to avoid or devoid someone of his /her interests and rest the case for themselves.
Saying ‘No’ often brings disgrace and disrespect for the people who do not back down for anyone looking for approvals against their own interests. And its often mistaken as the person may be considered rude or manner less or devoid of emotions, and those at the receiving end might feel the heat of being ignored or turned down and may accumulate unhealthy feelings in their hearts.
The person holding the ‘No’ position remains the same though, with peace and guilt unanimously, but the person who hears a ‘No’ bears the brunt of disapproval and apathy for life and may generalize his/her feeling if they get to hear it repetitively even from their friends and family.
Hearing a ‘No’ and turning down opinions affects the mental and emotional sanity of a person and he/she may get disheartened soon .
In the above situation one thing is for certain that ‘No’ and actually the person saying it is are not bound to change since no has flavour of its own and since No is so arrogant and professional in nature we continuously fail in the process of bringing change to it.
On a very rational note when things are clear and unchangeable then its our immediate responsibility for using ‘ and misusing ‘No’ quite certainly.
‘No’ can accommodate various kinds of tones with it, a polite no, a simple no, a rude no, or an angry no but we look as No is a No is a No.
However, this ‘No’ must be misused judiciously since it has s bundle of opportunities with it and should be seen as thd harbinger of good things that need to be observed, life comes with lot of disappintments and disapprovals and it is true that it never remains the same and is bound to change .
Here are plenty of people across the globe who have suffered a lot of disapprovals in their life and in almost every sphere be it professional or personal and they still had the potential to change and turn things around them to create a space for them to be approved and respected for their views and ideology.
To look at ‘No’ in a positive light we can attribute it to the of opportunities that awaits one, where so many ideas, proposals, needs and decisions are disapproved but one should explore the facets of exercising these in his/her own fashion to get them implemented. Its again not easy as it seems but not impossible as it may look to be, rather than sitting all life with disappointment and disgust one can discover novel opportunities for his/her future to undergo changes and prove themselves.
The art to change this no into an opportunity zone comes only through a deep reflection of your views that one may think are important enough and need to be recognized by the others. Its not that disapproval from one or many, becomes an end in itself. If a person wants to revolutionize with time, then everything is subject to change and even the faces we meet change as we begin to move beyond ‘No’.
Its never the end, where disapproval brings discomfort it also triggers observation and challenge us to change and spark revolution within ourself.